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25 Feb 2014 la 16:23 8 comentarii 456 vizualizari.

Victima: acea blajina faptura caruia mereu si mereu oamenii ii fac, ii dreg, ii cauzeaza sau dimpotriva, nu ii fac, nu ii dreg si nu le pasa. O intalnim in natura in trei stari de agregare.

Scoate timid capul atunci cand o intrebi ceva prea “obraznic” spunand ca nu intelege intrebarea si se si straduieste mai mult decat Sisif sa priceapa.

Daca o “persecuti” in continuare cu intrebari si o tragi la raspundere, apare a doua stare: dupa indelungi cazne, a inteles la ce te referi. Si stie sa si raspunda: iti spune pe loc cine e de vina ca s-a intamplat sau ca nu s-a intamplat. Ba chiar iti da si detalii despre cat de mult s-a zbatut sa faca treaba, insa pur si simplu nu s-a putut. Adica ei- cei care sunt de vina- nu au putut.

Iar daca dupa toate explicatiile primite inca mai ai obraznicia sa o intrebi de ce nu a facut in cutare sau cutare fel, ei bine atunci apare a treia stare. Lansand un suvoi de invective, face spume la gura si mai mai ca se tavaleste pe jos de nedreptatea abordarii. Adica dupa cat s-a straduit, dupa atata sudoare si nervi consumati, vii tu si pui intrebari stupide. Lasa ca vezi tu data viitoare cand mai ai nevoie de ceva. Vezi tu cum e cand nu se implica ea. Si mai vorbiti voi dupa.

Si asa Victima isi face iesirea zgomotoasa din scena, lasandu-si interlocutorii putin confuzi, alteori frustrati si in unele (deloc putine) cazuri chiar enervati. Iar ea isi cauta consolarea si recunoasterea in urechile oricui vrea sa asculte despre nedreptatea ce i s-a facut.

V-ati intrebat vreodata ce se intampla insa in mintea Victimei? Care e de fapt “tragaciul” mini-dramei? Nu, nu o intrebati direct pe ea. Mai degraba contemplati la cateva aspecte cheie:

  1. Cat de puternica credeti ca se simte Victima?
  2. Ce e mai usor pentru Victima: sa nu isi asume nimic sau sa isi asume si sa se puna pe treaba?
  3. De ce evita Victima sa se puna pe treaba?
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